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“Seven Things to Remember When Dealing with Doubts – Part 2”
Categories: Anxiety, Author: Mark McCrary, Doubt, JesusSeven Things to Remember When Dealing with Doubts – Part 2
By Mark McCrary
Text: Matthew 11:1-14
In our last article, we discussed three things we learned from the event of Mathew 11 where John expressed doubt about the identity of Jesus as the Messiah:
- Everyone doubts. John was strong and faithful, but even he was weak at this moment. We should not be surprised when we go through moments of doubt as well.
- Express your doubts. When John began to question, he took his questions right to the source: Jesus. Sometimes when we doubt, we are tempted to bottle them up inside. That doesn’t help. We should go to God in prayer and find others whom we trust to talk with.
- Circumstances of life cause us to doubt. John’s doubt likely came from his difficult imprisonment. Our struggles often come in challenging seasons—sicknesses, loss, etc.
There are four other helpful things to remember from this lesson, however. Let’s dive into them.
Number four: Jesus is Understanding When We Doubt
This is comforting. Jesus didn’t say, “What in the world is wrong with John? He saw the Spirit and heard the voice of God!”
We feel that way when we doubt, right? Surely God is disappointed in me. He must be thinking, “What in the world is wrong with them? They go to church! They’ve read the Bible! They’ve prayed and taught others about Me!” But, how did Jesus respond? Jesus turns to the crowd and lifts him up. Jesus understood the stresses John was in and sought to reassure him. And, if anyone was prone to judge John for this “momentary” lapse in faith, He defends John (Mt. 11:7-10).
Isn’t that wonderful? I need to hear that! Doubts from the circumstances of life don’t undo a life of faith expressed in service. And though faith may be suppressed because of circumstances, that suppression doesn’t mean it is dead. God sees it still!
Number Five: Jesus Doesn’t Want Us to Remain in Doubt
As understanding as He was, though, He did not want John to continue to question. He wanted to assure him to hold on to what he knew, not let go because of what he felt.
Jesus wants the same from us. While understanding of our doubts, He wants us to move past those and regain confidence in Him.
Number Six: Listen to Witnesses
There’s great power in a personal testimony; when a person says, “I saw this. It happened to me.” Jesus didn’t just tell John to trust Him. He performed miracles in front of John’s disciples and said, “Go tell him what you have seen Me do.”
Who are our witnesses? Who tells us when we doubt of what they have seen and experienced personally? Certainly, the apostles would be the first we should turn to. They witnessed the teachings, the death and resurrection of Jesus (1 Cor. 15:1-11; 1 Jn. 1:1-4). History tells us that except for John, all died for their faith. None renounced Jesus or claimed what they taught was a clever lie designed to bring them power and fame. No, they all died confessing Jesus is indeed Lord—even in the face of death. Listen to those witnesses!
But perhaps there are other witnesses we can turn to. People whom we know whose faith remained even through challenges in life. Brothers and sisters who persevered through cancers, pain, disappointments, and even death. Though they may not be witnesses exactly the way the apostles were, they are still witnesses to us that faith can be held on to even when difficult.
This brings us to our last lesson…
Number Seven: Hold on to What You Know
The message to John from the witnesses was enough to strengthen him. John could know these things. They were to be certain to him. Jesus’ message: imprisonment isn’t going to end for John well. Jesus knew he felt uncertain. But he could face what lay before him with confidence that Jesus was indeed the promised One—Jesus was doing what Isaiah said the Messiah would do. He would indeed accomplish the work of God’s Messiah and usher in God’s eternal kingdom. John, hold on to what you know—not what you feel.”
That is our call today. When you begin to feel doubt, go back to what you know. What are the proofs of God, His word, and His Son that are undeniable for you?
Here is an example to contemplate: The tomb of Jesus was empty, and none have been able to give a credible explanation other than the Bible. If the leaders took the body to keep it from the disciples, they could have produced it easily when the church started in the book of Acts and ended Christianity very quickly. They could not. If the disciples took the body to begin a movement intended to bring them fame and wealth, they would have admitted so when faced with certain death. They did not. The apostles knew whether they were telling the truth or lying, yet to a man they gave their lives as a testimony to what they saw and knew to be truth.
Whether it is the above or some other truth you cannot shake, hold on to it. Don’t define your faith by your doubts, but your doubts by your faith. That’s what Jesus was calling John to do. That’s what He is calling us to do as well.
Doubts sometimes occupy the minds of those who are not omniscient, thus are a part of our human journey. Don’t feel ashamed of those moments. Let’s learn from this story of our Savior and a faithful servant and press on.